MARRIAGE HACKS

Even though I have only been married for two years, I study couples that have been married a long time. Plus I consider what "should" be commonsense. Let's break it down:

HONOR YOUR SPOUSE

This should be obvious but apparently it is not. I hear women and men say the worst things about their spouse. I also hear them say the worst things to their spouse. Do you expect your spouse to stay with you for 40 years when you talk to them like that?

Practical Tips

Always attach a flattering adjective to husband/wife when talking about them. It creates an atmosphere of honor to work with.

Take one moment to tell them thank you for something...anything...each day.

Consider your life without them.

COMMUNICATION

This is generally listed as the number one reason for divorce. Be proactive. Don't let something like lack of communication kill your marriage.

Practical Tips

Pick up a book on communication. Yes seriously.

Take a few minutes before bed to ask your spouse how their day was. It actually does matter.

And for crying out loud...go on a date!

SEX

Generally included on that little list of reasons for divorce. It's not a chore. It's the person you are supposed to love.

Practical Tip

Get to it...

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